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  Welcome to the official launch of
www.yinnergyespanol.com

Uno aprende a amar, no cuando encuentre a la persona perfecta, sino cuando aprenda a creer en la perfección de una persona imperfecta,

IT MEANS: One learns to love, not when you find the perfect person, but when you learn to believe in the perfection of an imperfect person

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Si pudiese ser una parte de tí, elegiría ser tus lágrimasPorque tus lagrimas son concebidas en tu corazón, nacen en tus ojos, viven en tus mejillas, y se mueren en tus labios.

IT MEANS:If I could be a part of you,I would choose to be your tears. . Because your tears are conceived in your heart, born in your eyes, live on your cheeks and die on your lips
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I am honoured and humbled to be collaborating with my dear friend Pamela Carvajal from Chile.  She has worked hard to translate all the youryinnergy.com english material into Spanish so that she can share it will all her Spanish friends from around the world.  We then realize the potential for this website to be bigger and so we worked on making a Spanish version and we hope that it can be shared and enjoyed by all Spanish friends from around the world.

A BIG MUCHAS GRACIAS everyone for joining and sharing this wonderful new site!

  A ten step recipe to being happy, by Alejandro Jodorowsky

1. When in doubt between "doing" and "not doing," choose "doing". If you're wrong at least you'll have the experience.

2. Listen to your intuition more than your reason. Words forge reality but they are not it.

3. Make some childish dream of yours come true. For example, if you wanted to play but were forced to become an adult before your time, save some 500 euros and go play them at a casino until you lose it. If you win, keep playing. If you keep winning, even if it's millions, continue until you lose it all. It's not about winning, but about playing with no end.

4. There is no greater relief than to start becoming what one is. Since childhood, we're coerced into other people's destinies. We are not in this world to pursue the dreams of our parents, but our own. If you're a singer and not an attorney like your father, abandon your law career and record your album.

5. Stop criticizing your body right now. Accept it as it is without concerning yourself with the stares of others. You're not loved because you're beautiful. You're beautiful because you're loved.

6. Once a week, teach others the little or lot that you know. What you give to them, you give to yourself. What you don't give to them, you take away from yourself.

7. Every day, look for a positive story in the newspaper. It's difficult to find one. But, amid all the atrocities, somehow, there always is one. A new species of bird was discovered; comets transport life; a boy who fell from the top of a five story building landed unharmed; the daughter of a president intent on drowning herself was saved by a laborer with whom she fell in love and married; young Chilean poets bombarded the palace of La Moneda where Allende was assassinated with 300,000 poems from a helicopter; etc.

8. If your parents abused you when you were a child, calmly confront them in a neutral place that is not their territory, developing four aspects:

This is what they did to me.
This is what I felt.
This is what, because of that, I now suffer.

And this is the reparation that I ask. Forgiveness without reparation has no use.

9. Even if you have a large family, assign yourself a personal territory where no one may enter without your permission.

10. Stop defining yourself: allow yourself every possibility that could be, and change paths as often as necessary.

The Simple Truths of Appreciation,
by Barbara Glanz

My friend, Bob Danzig, has an amazing story. Simple words of appreciation and encouragement changed his life. Bob was in five foster homes during his youth, and said he spent his childhood trying to find someone to love and appreciate him.

When he was nine years old, he had a new social worker. He said after she had done all the paperwork to move him to yet another foster home, she sat him down, looked him directly in the eyes, and said, "Bobby, I want you to always remember these words: YOU ARE WORTHWHILE!"

Bob says that no one had ever said anything like that to him, and each time they met, she repeated those words. They became an affirmation of appreciation that he heard over and over again in his head.

Bob graduated at sixteen, not because he was smart, he says, but because he got mixed up in the system!

He soon took a job at the Albany New York Times as a copy boy, and his very first boss was a woman named Margaret. After he had worked there about six months, Margaret called him into her office one day and asked him to sit down. He thought for sure he was going to be fired! She looked him right in the eyes and said to him, "I have been the office manager for 15 years - I have been observing you - and I believe YOU ARE FULL OF PROMISE." Those words, on that day, gave him permission to aspire.

Those two positive messages of appreciation played over and over again in his head and ultimately gave him the courage to be the very best he could be. Sixteen years later he became the Publisher of the Albany New York Times, and seven years after that, he became CEO of Hearst Newspapers, one of the largest newspaper companies in the world; and he credits it all to those simple words of appreciation and love. What a wonderful example of how little gifts of appreciation can make such a difference in a life!

What do you appreciate most in life?

Who do you appreciate most in life?

Do you appreciate yourself?

 

  NAILS IN THE FENCE 

Make sure you 
read all the way down to the last sentence.

 More importantly the very last sentence.

There once was a little boy who had a bad temper.  His Father gave him a bag of nails and told him that every time he lost his temper, he must hammer a nail into the back of the fence.

The first day the boy had driven 37 nails into the fence.  Over the next  few weeks, as he learned to control his anger, the number of nails hammered daily gradually dwindled down.  He discovered it was easier to hold his temper than to drive those nails into the fence.  Finally the day came when the boy didn't lose his temper at all.